Inspiring and empowering whānau across the motu

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Our vision

Empower whānau with mātauranga to raise pēpi and tamariki that are happy, loved, and strong.
Tūpuna Parenting shares the gentle and respectful parenting ways of tūpuna Māori from pre-colonial times. Our tūpuna believed pepi were born tapu and born with mana. This means they treated them respectfully, were embarrassed if they cried and never yelled at or smacked their whānau. They were protected by the atua (spirit world). We know all this from our mātauranga (knowledge) and academic evidence. We want to inspire and empower whānau with tūpuna parenting to raise the rangatira of tomorrow.

Our Team

Tūpuna Parenting is a movement about whānau, it’s grounded in our whakapapa.

The movement is led by the whānau at Pēpi Penapena (Cherish Babies). Founders Elizabeth and Hirini are inspired by both their parents, Helen Mountain Harte (1942-2019) and Dr Hone Kaa (1943-2012). Our tūpuna surround us and support us in this mahi. We have the mātauranga, and the skills to share it across the motu.

And we will.

Elizabeth Emere Harte

Ngāpuhi, Ngāti Porou
Chief Executive Officer
Inspired by her mother’s and grandmother’s work, Elizabeth is applying her years of experience in user experience, designing for customers and strategy planning to this kaupapa. Her very technical background was as a software developer (BSc(Hons)) and Roboticist (MEngSc) before moving into leadership and planning roles. She learnt about tūpuna parenting ways in detail from her Mum in the years before Helen passed away. Elizabeth’s other mahi is as māmā to three tamariki, who she treasures and adores.

Dr Hirini Kaa

Ngāti Porou, Ngāti Kahungunu and Rongowhakaata
Chairman
As well as being Chairman for this kaupapa, Dr Kaa is Archdeacon for Mātauranga in the Anglican Church and a social justice advocate. He is passionate about child welfare, just as his father, Dr Hone Kaa, was before him. He holds a PhD in history from the University of Auckland and is author of an award-winning book, Te Hāhi Mihinare – The Māori Anglican Church, about iwi engagement with Christianity and how Māori adapted it to make it our own.

Ashleigh Berryman

Ngā Ariki Kaiputahi, Ngāti Kahungunu ki Heretaungā
Kaiarahi
Ashleigh has been a Maori Health Worker within Waikato communities since 2016 and became interested in tūpuna parenting after she had her matamua. She is māmā to three tamariki now, aged 8, 7 and 6. When the opportunity to learn more about this kaupapa in-depth through Ngākau Aroha Parenting arose, Ashleigh jumped at the chance and was part of our very first cohort in 2021.

She has been sharing the kaupapa with whānau, both online and in face-to-face wānanga, ever since. She completed her facilitator journey for Ngākau Aroha in 2022, and started her Kaiārahi role in 2023.

Tania Matautia

Ngati Uenukukopako, Te Roro o te Rangi and Te Arawa
Kaiako
Tania carries a passion for whānau Māori and their tamariki. She has a Bachelor of Education and taught in early childhood education and primary schools in Tāmaki Makaurau for 6 years. She then became a Māori community health worker in Porirua for several years before. As well as being Kaiako for our kaupapa, her other mahi is working in Māori capability with iwi around Aotearoa. Tania is a wife and Māmā of 3 aged 12,5 and 2 who she enjoys spending her time with. Tania completed Ngākau Aroha in 2022 and trained to become a facilitator shortly after.

Together, we can inspire and empower whānau to parent like our tūpuna

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Grounding our mahi (work)

Whakapapa Grounds Us

Elizabeth and Hirini  are inspired by the very important intergenerational mahi of both their parents, Helen Mountain Harte (1942-2019) and Dr Hone Kaa (1943-2012).

Helen and Hone were both advocates for Māori tamariki across te motu.

The pūrākau in our mahi are from the atua, but also from our whānau, mātauranga-a-whānau (whānau knowledge).

  • In particular, the pūrākau from Elizabeth’s mother, Helen,
  • Her grandmother, Emere Makere Waiwaha Kaa (1901-1996), and
  • From her and Hirini’s shared great grandfather, Panikena Kaa (1872-1948)